Precise numbers would be impossible to ascertain, given that they’d rely on self-reporting that would inevitably be obstructed by stigma and shame, but in her 1995 book Crossdressers: And Those Who Share Their Lives, researcher Peggy Rudd estimated that as much as 10 percent of the male population at least occasionally crossdresses. My Husband Pushed Me Into an Unfair Sex Contract and I Want Out I’m Afraid My Sex Life Is About to Destroy My Very Public Career My Husband Thinks I Don’t Have Sex With Him Because It’s “Typical” for Married Couples. My Boyfriend’s Strange Habit After We Finish Having Sex Breaks My Heart In that case, you can consider other ethical ways of pursuing your interests-these include an open arrangement that will allow you sex with likeminded partners or breaking up. If you simply must use handcuffs, and he absolutely will not, well, you’ve found yourself in a mismatch. If rope or something like it will do, go with that.Įven if your boyfriend relents to your specific request (and I don’t think you should even put him in the position of having to do so as it will require more pressure than is appropriate), the handcuffs may take him out of your sex anyway, and having sex with someone who’s distracted or otherwise not engaged just sucks for everyone.
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Is it possible for you to meet him halfway and to find an alternative means of being tied up? It’s hard for me to be sure whether your kink strictly involves handcuffs (as you seem to indicate at the start of your letter) or if it’s more generally about being tied up (which you suggest when you refer to being tied up as “the actual kink”). by starting his explanation with something like, “This may seem strange, but…”)? Self-awareness is a rare commodity, so this is hardly an airtight method of determining veracity, but I’d be way more suspicious about someone who played this like, “Well duh I wore a condom to jerk off,” versus, “I have this quirk, and you may even have a hard time believing this…” Finally, when you confronted him about this, did he acknowledge that wearing a condom during masturbation is unique (i.e. ( This Healthline article about wearing a condom during masturbation lists a number of reasons why someone might want to do so, including do build their “condom confidence” during partnered sex.) Additionally, if he’s a distance shooter/sprayer, it’s conceivable that wearing a condom would make for the easiest cleanup in a do-not-soil situation. If when he used them with you it was without complaint, it’s possible he likes condoms or even practices using them for sex during masturbation. The first is his attitude toward using condoms during sex. Some people do wear condoms to masturbate, but his explanation’s credibility depends on a few more factors that you didn’t specify. Do men wear condoms to masturbate? Does this explanation sound reasonable? I have no other reason to think that anything is off, and I really believe in respecting one’s partner and being supportive and fair.īut my past experiences make it very difficult for me to figure out if my suspicions are reasonable.
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Another small group of people say that guys do occasionally do this. Feeling confused, I searched online, and many people say that men never wear condoms to masturbate, so this is a sure sign of cheating. I have just always heard that men don’t like wearing condoms because it dulls the sensation so much. I really don’t want to accuse him of anything, and I care about him very much. He said yes he was happy, didn’t want to have sex with anyone else, and didn’t want me to, either. Not long before I found the wrapper, I asked him if he still wanted to be exclusive (since we were recently both vaccinated).
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But I know that his TV is in in the living room, so he could have been watching porn in there. I have seen-and participated in-his masturbating on the bed, and he ejaculates onto his sheets and puts them in the wash. I asked him about it, and he said that he had worn it to masturbate because he did not want to get semen on the couch since the couch cushions are hard to clean.